we_bring_hell | This is Halloween!

The Bar loves her holidays, but she is also capable of respecting religious strictures. That's why she put a lot of thought into finding a Halloween costume for Harrow that works with her face paint and general insistence on the monochromatic.

Harrow, for her part, is baffled by the white-pinstriped black suit and the oversized bow, but the gloves are very cool, and the buckled shoes suit as well. She has no idea what's going on but she can live with this.

The Bar seems even more unusually populated than usual, and there are a lot of gourds around. Hm.

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herald_ingress

Oh. That's so sweet. And there's a pang in her heart, but it's not one of jealousy or regret. It's just one of longing.

"I'm happy that you're both taking care of each other. Truly."

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we_bring_hell

Harrow's smile is small and rather shy.

"The relationship between cavalier and necromancer is usually not romantic," she says.

"But it is not forbidden. No matter what, it is a very intimate relationship of mutual support and protection."

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herald_ingress

"That's important kind of relationship to have in one's life."

One day...

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we_bring_hell

"I think it--cavaliership in general, not between Griddle and I in particular--may be like what you have with your Megwyn," she says, very uncertain. "Only we are both human, so our interdependency is... different, I am sure."

"But perhaps I speak of things I do not understand."

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herald_ingress

"No, there are definitely similarities. Just with a Companion and Herald it's more of a parental or sibling bond. We can have attachments to other humans outside of that. Many Heralds marry or lifebond to other Heralds or people surrounding us. But your Companion is always, always</I there, and when one of you dies, the other follows."

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we_bring_hell

"Yes, of course," she says. "It's quite rare for a necromancer to marry their cavalier, and there are... obstacles. It's much more often a platonic, chivalric bond."

"It strikes me as strange--almost like having a third party to your marriage--but it is the more common way. My parents were both necromancers, but of course they shared a cavalier."

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herald_ingress

"I learned at an early age to not overthink this kind of thing. Especially here, where there can be so very many sorts of bonds and relationships, you just, I don't know. You let go, and you love. So long as everyone is happy, it doesn't matter if seems strange to others."

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we_bring_hell

She nods. "I was startled to hear that Lan Wangji's preference for men would be an obstacle to him in his world. But of course, they don't have even rudimentary fetal technology."

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herald_ingress

"Oh, would it? Wei Wuxian said it wasn't a typical thing, but not that it would be an obstacle."

She shakes her head. "That's sad. I don't understand it. But even for Valdemar, it's not commonplace, nor is it universally favored. Not for men, anyway. Women have an easier time, I've noticed."

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we_bring_hell

"It doesn't matter in the Empire," Harrow says. "Well--an exclusive preference might be remarked upon, if it were made obvious. The assumption is that gender is not a deciding factor, but of course most people have no idea about a stranger's romantic history."

"But we have our rules, I suppose, and our political marriages. Mostly around necromancers and cavaliers, or marriage out of House. It's assumed if you marry a necromancer of another House you will join the House of the necromancer; two necromancers of different Houses would likely not be permitted to marry."

"And a marriage between two necromancers has its own complexities; more practical than legal."

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herald_ingress

"I'd like to get married one day. Tom and Door, they've been together for a long time, and they still make googly eyes at each other sometimes. And my mother and father were fond of each other. I don't remember a lot about them, but I remember they were so sweet to us, to each other. I hope to find someone to be with like that."

Ugh. She's getting lovelorn and maudlin on Halloween in a Wonder Woman costume. There has to be a bar rule against that!

"But, here now, we're both too young to talk of getting married and settling down. There's much too much to be done before that happens."

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we_bring_hell

"My parents--I'm not sure if they were a love match or a political marriage. They united two powerful family lines, I know that. And by the time I came along..."

By the time she came along, there seemed to be no love left in Priamhark Noniusvianus or Pelleamena Novenarius at all.

"I suppose I haven't had many examples at all," she says, growing pensive. Some sweet elderly couples on the Ninth.

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herald_ingress

"Well, then you're here now. You can find new examples to model."

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we_bring_hell

She brightens; it is hard to dim her shine today, even if Harrow has a wealth of gothic memories to do so. "It is so. Lan Wangji gave me some extremely insightful advice, on composure and propriety and relaxing such strictures with the right person."

"Do you know if Moiraine Sedai has a partner? A marriage partner, that is."

Edited Date: 2020-10-31 03:35 am (UTC)

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herald_ingress

"I'm really, really happy for Wei Wuxian and Lan Wangji," she sighs.

Then she squints, remembering their most recent talk. "I- don't think so? I asked if she was married or had children, because I've known her since I was a kid, but I realized I had no idea. She said no. She's always been, um, aloof. Not in a bad way. More 'I'll protect everyone from harm' and not 'I'll mention any details about my life in conversation'."

Edited Date: 2020-10-31 04:00 am (UTC)

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we_bring_hell

"I admire that greatly," Harrow says. "I feel I too often veer between ominous silence and unbridled nastiness."

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herald_ingress

"Harrow, you're very poised. Much more poised than I ever am - or ever will be. If you want to be like Moiraine, you can, but I think you're best as Harrow. I bet Gideon does, too."

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we_bring_hell

Her smile turns faintly wry. "Griddle has often demands more transparency from me, but she also suffers the worst of my bouts of temper."

"A mixed blessing at best."

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herald_ingress

"And she's still your sworn sword and cavalier," Ingress reminds her. "One flesh, one end."

It's so romantic. SO SO SO romantic.

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we_bring_hell

"Lady Ingress!" she yelps, burying her face in her hands as the blush consumes her whole.

"Oh, I am blessed beyond reckoning."

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herald_ingress

"Yes, and you'd best get used to it, silly," she says. She almost reaches out to pat her on the shoulder, but thinks better of it at the last minute, gripping the lasso on her hip instead.

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we_bring_hell

Harrow does not look around the room, but her furtive manner gives that impression. She says in a low voice: "She loves me, Lady Ingress."

"I had to tell someone."